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Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 11:53 AM
someone tried to knock me down a peg today....but failed so amazing i think he might be moving.
lol
i was sitting on my computer and i received a IM from msn saying i was stupid for not taking a job that was offered to me.
the job was a delivery driver in which i don't have a license. so i had to turn it down
the message is from a guy i know that is 18 and already has 2 kids from 2 chicks, so in the end who is the dummie.
so here the deal, i called him out as a failure for being a 18 year old dad and he should go back to rethink his life before he makes to many bastard kids.
so heres the dealo, did i go to far
and how do you guys deal with losers and anger
because my stress level is to the max, i am 21 on blood pressure meds for being so stressed
Vaughn
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 11:56 AM
You should have just not responded. By responding, and attacking him back, you are adding more fuel to the flame
Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 12:02 PM
indeed, but there is only a level of shit i can take these days
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 12:04 PM
Its not that hard to press X on the window and just forget about it ;)
Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 12:05 PM
Its not that hard to press X on the window and just forget about it ;)
i been doing that for a year, and i get sick of just letting stuff ride
i was always told to grow a shell and not let people walk all over me
TreasureBox Films
11-23-2008, 12:05 PM
foge' abou' it!
MitchellStafiej
11-23-2008, 12:07 PM
Arguing on the internet is overrated buddy. Get a blog?
Mitch
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 12:07 PM
i been doing that for a year, and i get sick of just letting stuff ride
i was always told to grow a shell and not let people walk all over me
Its not letting them walk over you. Its acting more mature than them, and not resorting to attacking each other.
Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 12:10 PM
Arguing on the internet is overrated buddy. Get a blog?
Mitch
lol yet again with this blog stuff
if i wrote this in a blog
no one will read it
if i post it here
i get some idea how to fix the problem and get pointers
Its not letting them walk over you. Its acting more mature than them, and not resorting to attacking each other.
yeah i did go to his level but sometimes it the only way these people will listen
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 12:12 PM
yeah i did go to his level but sometimes it the only way these people will listen
Actions speak louder than words. Not responding will have a greater impact then you responding.
He just wants a reaction
TreasureBox Films
11-23-2008, 12:13 PM
you don't have to listen though.
EDIT:
dang it he cut me to the quick
Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 12:13 PM
Actions speak louder than words. Not responding will have a greater impact then you responding.
He just wants a reaction
i been ignoring him for 2 months
TreasureBox Films
11-23-2008, 12:15 PM
is he emailing you? because you could just change your email address.
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 12:15 PM
i been ignoring him for 2 months
Again. Its not that difficult to click the little checkbox and delete.
Vaughn Whynot
11-23-2008, 12:25 PM
i understand
i blocked him and deleted him
so thanks for the talk
Nonsensical studios
11-23-2008, 12:25 PM
No problem.
Indymoguler
11-23-2008, 01:14 PM
well, at least he's digging a deeper hole in the long run.
Marc-OS
11-23-2008, 02:42 PM
As long as you only insult him and not his kids, I think it's fair.
greyroompictures
11-23-2008, 06:12 PM
There's this misguided perception that words don't affect people, but they do.
A lot of people treat other people like crap on the internet / over e-mail etc... and it's antisocial - plain and simple. Just because it happens a lot doesn't make it any more right or honourable.
Vaughn - I'm sorry to hear someone's nipping at your heels... It's real easy to let it get to you - my last job I was rubbed up the wrong way for three years - it's all very well saying 'get a thick skin' but when the nipping is constant it drags you down...
OK - so you bit back... you're human. If you reckon you;ve gone too far, then you can always put the ball back in his court by e-mailing back to smooth things over.
People can grind you down... whether they're online or there in the flesh... Arrrrrgh I wish I could say something profound to make it all better!
Scott
11-23-2008, 06:57 PM
i been doing that for a year, and i get sick of just letting stuff ride
i was always told to grow a shell and not let people walk all over me
Fuck that. Hunt your hunters.
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